Curious? But affraid!

 BDSM is a fun and fulfilling world to explore. You shouldn’t shy away from it, but you should understand that there are always risks.  A good experienced Dom will minimize these risks.  All BDSM activity involves considerable discussion before any play.  This discussion includes safe words, limits, expectations, and consent.  A good Dom will go slow and be safe.

I would say about half of the folks in the world of BDSM are single.  Its a GREAT way to meet others with similar interests.

It is not uncommon for a partner to feel threatened.  Try talking or coming to one of our Introduction to BDSM events and we ca try to help remove the fears.

Its not for everybody but I can honestly say that I have not met a person yet that tried it and didnt like it.  Life is short.  Give it a try.  Carpe Diem!

Aboslutely!.  Send me a message and I will send you a list of people that you can contact.  Or come to one of our public events.

Most BDSM play is sexual to some degree.  But it does not have to be.  BDSM play includes the range from light through passionate rough sex.  Everyone is different and it is best to go slow, explore and find what makes you feel good.

One of the most wonderful things about the world of BDSM is that most peope are non-judgemental.  This is a great way to get in touch with your body and accept that fact that your body is fine.

Of course you can bring a friend.  

Researchers have also determined that participating in successful sadomasochistic scenes increases the feeling of connectedness and intimacy with partners. While the exact reasons for this are not entirely clear, research has shown that doing novel things with romantic partners, rather than the same routine activities, increases intimacy. Brain scans of married couples revealed that sharing novel activities triggers the brain's reward system and floods it with dopamine and other feel-good chemicals.